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So because of this unfair association, feminine gay men must be talked down to by masculine gay men? Not willfully samr into it. You and Kiwi are my two new favorite Queerty users lol. Even many other feminine men. Trust me I know a lot of feminine men who are only interested in dating masculine men.
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My prejudice against insecure anonymous cowards Goodlooking masculine for same blame everyone else for their problems? Do you like Barbara Streisand or do you idolize her?
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I had seen the other side, and it kind of hurt. Preference has a lot to do with it, but so does trend. Our culture demands that we unsheathe ourselves with relentless exercise and be the Sean Cody model that is hidden within Goodlooking masculine for same all. Be the prototypical man. When did we stop believing that who we are is good enough?
That the fight we fight is Hot housewives want real sex Pohenegamook Quebec against our own but against an idea that serves to dehumanize us? When did we start believing in this idea? Have we believed it all along? Being too gay stops at being gay. You can be the truest form of yourself and someone will always call your bluff.
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I know saame years of being in the gay community that there is someone out there for every cross-section of the gay community. I also have a few trans friends that are some of the best people I have ever known. I prefer masculine men. The one thing I am tired of is apologizing for that. I am not flamboyant and I never will be, not because I have an issue with it, but because its just not in my nature.
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For some reason well beyond my understanding, this behavior is accepted and encouraged in the gay community. This sums it up best.
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The fem guys are in a lot of ways braver because they are more visible and therefore prone to discrimination. Because femenity is a sign of a lesser strength than the masculine man.
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Some of whom have also been somewhat role models. Not into the gay clubs bars, or parades… Those places do not represent me, and just not my scene. I am proud of the man I am, and because I know I am fortunately to have a good father and other strong male role models.
I think the reason masculine gay guys look down on feminine guys because society teaches people from an early age that masculinity is supreme and attractive. We are fed Goodlooking masculine for same by the media — films, ads, magazines, the list goes on. We are reducing the visibility and normalisation of feminine men because we accept and project what we are fed, or what we are told is desirable.
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If it becomes clear that your initial decision was the wrong choice, graciously propose a change without dwelling on your mistake or over-apologizing.
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